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Better Sex Community and Written Identity are tied at 5.0/5 in this head-to-head comparison. Better Sex Community has 1 member review and Written Identity has 9. All ratings come from real member reviews. The full breakdown below should help you decide.
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Written IdentityWritten Identity comes out ahead on ratings, review count, or recommendation rate. That said, Better Sex Community might still be the better pick depending on what you're after. The review themes above break down what each one does well.
Better Sex says it all
This is a safe space for exploring your sexuality in different ways and improving your sexual relationship with your partner. We talk about this often taboo, topic in a way that is empowering and not titillating. Deborah Kat is all about communication and a wonderful guide into a world where many have often felt alone.
Jill Hart · Jan 29, 2026
Alli Gatlin knows what she's talking about
Alli Gatlin knows what she's talking about. Her journaling advice and written prompts are excellent, but what proved even more valuable to me was talking with her one-on-one. The combination of encouragement and plain-spoken truths she delivered allowed me to overcome the worst of my self-doubt and really embrace a sense of confidence. Highly recommend.
Dan Jolley · Jul 1, 2026
Alli is a professional writer and a great person!
Alli is a professional writer and a great person! We're not only learning to write, overcoming writing anxiety, but also having fun in the community. Alli is a great person to be around!
Paul Sirvinskas · Jun 17, 2026
Ali explains and shares such meaningful prompts and advice on how to become a...
Ali explains and shares such meaningful prompts and advice on how to become a better writer. More, then that the course develops you to think critically but look deeply into yourself. I definitely recommend her ✨️
Arooba Najaf · Jun 17, 2026
Both have a ProveWorth Score of 5.0. It's a toss-up on paper. Read the member reviews above to see which one fits what you're looking for.
Better Sex Community is free and Written Identity is $5/mo. Better Sex Community is free, so there's nothing to lose by trying it first.
Better Sex Community is rated 5.0/5 across 1 reviews. Written Identity is rated 5.0/5 across 9 reviews, with members highlighting community support.
Yes. There are plenty of other relationships communities with member reviews. Browse the Relationships directory or check the best relationships communities page for the complete ranked list.